Why do people demonize me for loving my country? America?

Ok so apparently is bad to love the land i live on? now im not a wears flag shirts and hates other country's American. im just a american I love my country nothing will change that. more to the point other people always hate on me for the fact i love my country. do i love our government no do i approve of this war no. do i love my country yes. is it other country's just focus on all the bad in us and none of the good we done? i mean every damn country has had crime and war. our people have more freedoms then any other country true we are not 100% free but its necessary for civilized society. It would just be anarchy without laws to keep us in check. we help other country's in crisis and feed the starving in other 3rd world country's what if after the earthquakes in Haiti we just said **** it there on there own? what if we told japan to **** them self's? what if we didn't help stop Hitler. the point is we did help and we won. im not saying America is perfect far from it . but neither is Russia the British rule or china japan Poland etc . they done some good and bad. But it seams like people including Americans are fixating on all the bad thing's we did. that's our government. not us the government dose Not! represent the real American people.im sure i will get some people that love to rant on about how they hate about America. what ever i don't care about there opinions anyway i want nice civilized response not just hateful words.